Source-checked guide · adult-capable products included

Find an AI boyfriend by fit, boundaries, and price.

Compare documented male companion and romance options by adult-content boundary, publisher-stated audience fit, device access, current price records, and account controls. We keep important unknowns visible instead of naming a winner.

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Choose by dealbreaker

Start with one non-negotiable.

Pick the condition that would rule an option in or out. Each path opens the current evidence; none names a winner.

I need the publisher to say who it is for.

3 adult-roleplay rows explicitly name gay users. DearHim is the one current male-romance row whose publisher note positions it for women and gay men who date men.

Publisher wording does not establish queer competency, pronoun behavior, inclusion parity, or product quality.

See the named-audience evidence

Adult roleplay must be documented.

10 of 14 current male-romance paths meet this guide's adult-roleplay evidence gate.

That establishes documented availability and scope—not “uncensored” behavior, quality, safety, or uninterrupted sessions.

View the adult-roleplay evidence cohort

I need an app-store install.

DearHim, Kindroid, and Nomi have operator-linked app-store distribution in the qualifying cohort.

Distribution does not establish native, hybrid, or wrapper implementation—or feature, billing, policy, or account-control parity.

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I want to check free access first.

The separate source-bound guide distinguishes ongoing tiers, free entry, trials, card requirements, automatic paid conversion, conflicts, and unknowns.

A $0 price or free app download does not establish usable free service access.

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Documented starting points

Start with fit, price, access, and reasons to pause.

These products currently have enough sourced detail for a useful decision summary. They appear in catalog order, not by quality, commission, or a hands-on verdict.

Starting point · not ranked

Candy AI

Candy AI is a documented browser and home-screen web-app option across desktop, iPhone, and Android for people who want text, images, voice messages, and video. Its public pages list unlimited text and 100 generic tokens per month, but not what those tokens buy or how the experience compares across devices. Only settings-based cancellation is documented; privacy, export, refunds, deletion, conversation quality, and end-to-end outcomes remain unresolved.

Adult-content record
Adult first
Device access
Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + home-screen web app; Android: browser + home-screen web app
Current monthly price
$13.99 per month for Monthly listing on web; checked 2026-07-13.
Account controls
Cancel: self service; delete: unknown; export: unknown.

It may fit if: You want women, men, or a broadly labeled trans companion option. You prioritize image and video features alongside chat.

Pause before paying if: You need a native App Store or Google Play app; Candy documents browser and PWA delivery instead.

Starting point · not ranked

CrushOn.AI

CrushOn.AI is an 18+ user-generated companion service with adult roleplay, browser access, iPhone home-screen delivery, Android home-screen and direct-APK delivery, and a displayed $0 entry with unresolved allowances. Paid monthly listings run from $5.99 to $199.99, with annual term totals for the same five core tiers, one add-on package, and two bundle combinations. It may fit people who want publisher-documented character and model options, but native-store identities, inclusive parity, feature quality, and cross-device behavior remain unresolved. Its SFW no-training promises also conflict with a Privacy Policy that permits chat-content training and broad processing.

Adult-content record
UGC, variable boundaries
Device access
Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: home-screen web app; Android: direct APK + home-screen web app
Current monthly price
$5.99 per month for Standard monthly on web; checked 2026-07-12. 6 other current monthly listings are available in the full profile.
Account controls
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: unknown.

It may fit if: Adult roleplay, user-created characters, model choice, group chat, memory controls, or voice messages matter to you. Browser, iPhone home-screen, or Android home-screen/direct-APK delivery is acceptable.

Pause before paying if: You require a verified native Apple App Store or Google Play identity.

Starting point · not ranked

DearHim

DearHim documents browser access and an exact iPhone App Store listing for an AI-boyfriend product explicitly positioned for women and gay men who date men, with text chat, memory, images, voice messages, voice calls, and tiered monthly or annual plans. Android browser access is documented, but Android store distribution, iPhone implementation type, billing paths, broader cross-platform parity, representation breadth, and product quality remain unresolved.

Adult-content record
Hybrid, adult optional
Device access
Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + app-store installation (implementation unresolved); Android: browser
Current monthly price
$12.99 per month for Pro monthly on web; checked 2026-07-12. 2 other current monthly listings are available in the full profile.
Account controls
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: support assisted.

It may fit if: You want male companions on a product explicitly built for women and gay men who date men. You want browser access on desktop or mobile, or exact iPhone App Store distribution, plus text, images, voice messages, and voice calls.

Pause before paying if: You need Android store distribution, a separately established iPhone implementation type, or tested browser-to-iPhone feature, billing, policy, and account-operation parity.

Already deciding between these options?

See their documented differences side by side. No winner or score is assigned.

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How this guide defines its current research scope

These counts describe documented catalog coverage, not product quality or inclusion performance.

Male + romance paths14
Adult-roleplay evidence cohort10
Gay audience explicitly named5
Specifically documented trans men paths0
Ranked winners0

Start with fit, not a leaderboard

Four questions that are not interchangeable.

Choosing a male companion answers who the AI is. It does not establish who the publisher serves, the kind of relationship available, or whether adult content is supported.

1. Who should the companion be?

Male inventory is a companion-identity fact. Trans representation is recorded separately because a broad label cannot establish a specific trans man or trans woman path.

2. Who does the publisher name?

Audience support appears only when a current first-party source explicitly names an audience. A boyfriend catalog, queer character tag, or customization control is not enough.

3. What relationship do you want?

Romance, friendship, story roleplay, adult roleplay, and group chat are separate modes. One cannot be inferred from another.

See relationship modes explained

4. What content boundary fits?

Adult-first, optional adult, variable user-generated content, SFW romance, and unresolved boundaries remain visibly different. Identity never determines explicitness.

Outside this hub's evidence basis: this source-checked guide does not evaluate pronoun handling, inclusion parity, memory quality, relationship quality, media consistency, or long-term behavior. Those questions need appropriate first-hand evidence.

Audience language

Only 3 adult-roleplay documented rows explicitly name gay users.

DearHim, MyLovely, and OurDream have current first-party orientation evidence that explicitly names gay users. That establishes publisher language; it cannot establish equal product quality, reliable pronoun behavior, or inclusion parity.

Publisher-stated audience evidence

DearHim

Audience paths explicitly named: gay.

Publisher positioning note: The current official homepage explicitly says the product is built for women and gay men who date men; quality and parity remain untested.

Companion inventory: men.

Content record: Hybrid, adult optional; editorial inference.

Publisher-stated audience evidence

MyLovely

Audience paths explicitly named: gay.

Publisher positioning note: The official gay-chat page explicitly markets Gay AI Chat and AI boyfriend paths and says the service is inclusive for LGBT users. This supports only the narrow gay-audience value; broader LGBTQ+ user parity remains untested.

Companion inventory: women and men.

Content record: UGC, variable boundaries; editorial inference.

Publisher-stated audience evidence

OurDream

Audience paths explicitly named: gay, lesbian, bi/pan, trans/nonbinary, and custom.

Publisher positioning note: The official roleplay page says the product supports every identity and orientation and explicitly names gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, and nonbinary paths; parity remains merchant-claimed and untested.

Companion inventory: women, men, and nonbinary.

Content record: Adult first; editorial inference.

Publisher positioning for women who date men: DearHim: The current official homepage explicitly says the product is built for women and gay men who date men; quality and parity remain untested.

This is target-user positioning, not an orientation category or a tested conclusion about product quality.

Additional boundary cases: Anima and Idyll AI also name gay users in current first-party material, bringing the active catalog-wide count to 5. They are kept outside the adult-roleplay evidence cohort because the required adult-scope claims are not established.

Compare DearHim, MyLovely, and OurDream side by side

Alphabetical, not ranked

10 products meet the current adult-roleplay evidence gate.

Each qualifying product has usable, current or due-soon records for male companion inventory, romance, adult roleplay, and an adult-scope product classification. The starting-point cards above surface the products with deeper decision summaries; open the ledger below when you want every qualifying row and its evidence limits.

Open the full 10-product evidence ledger

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Adult AI boyfriend options with current source state and oldest relevant check
ProductAdult relationship recordAudience evidenceDevice deliveryCurrent monthly listingsDocumented exit pathsOldest check
Candy AI4 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Adult firstContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-11 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + home-screen web app; Android: browser + home-screen web appAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 2 citations
Read delivery caveat

Official product and help pages document browser access on desktop and mobile plus an installable PWA on iOS and Android; Candy says it does not offer a native App Store or Google Play app.

Candy documents mobile-browser and PWA delivery and explicitly says no native iOS or Android app is offered. Core feature, content-policy, billing, age-rule, notification, and account-operation parity remain untested and undocumented.

  • $13.99 — Monthly listing, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-13
Cancel: self service; delete: unknown; export: unknown.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-13 · 1 citation
Read account caveat

The subscription page documents direct billing and settings-based cancellation; privacy, export, refunds, deletion, and end-to-end outcomes remain unverified.

CrushOn.AI14 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger UGC, variable boundariesContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: home-screen web app; Android: direct APK + home-screen web appAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 3 citations
Read delivery caveat

First-party pages document browser delivery, iOS home-screen web and AltStore instructions, and Android home-screen web plus direct APK delivery. No exact first-party-linked Apple App Store or Google Play identity was established.

First-party instructions document browser/home-screen delivery, an iOS AltStore source, and an Android APK. AltStore is retained in this note because the delivery schema has no sideload value; exact native-store identity and feature, policy, billing, price, notification, and entitlement parity remain unknown.

  • $5.99 — Standard monthly, core plan, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $14.99 — Premium promotional monthly, core plan, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $39.99 — Luxe monthly, core plan, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $49.99 — Premium + Pro Chat Package monthly, bundle, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $69.99 — Luxe + Pro Chat Package monthly, bundle, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $89.99 — Elite monthly, core plan, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $199.99 — Imperial monthly, core plan, web, Geography not publishedmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: unknown.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 4 citations
Read account caveat

Current policies document direct and original-channel billing/cancellation, mostly nonrefundable and platform-dependent refund terms, and settings-based deletion with support fallback. Export is not documented; an active subscription may block deletion; unrecoverable deletion conflicts with a three-day recovery window; the SFW no-training promise conflicts with Privacy Policy training and processing language; and no workflow or erasure outcome was tested.

DearHim7 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Hybrid, adult optionalContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: editorial inference Publisher explicitly names gay.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + app-store installation (implementation unresolved); Android: browserAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 3 citations
Read delivery caveat

Official help documents the mobile-responsive browser product across modern desktop and phone browsers. That page still says an iOS app is coming soon, while the identity-linked US App Store listing records a live release on 2026-07-08; the newer dated store record controls current iOS availability, and the mismatch remains a freshness warning. The help page says an Android app remains in development.

DearHim documents browser delivery and has a dated iOS App Store listing, although the help page still says iOS is coming soon. The listing does not resolve native-versus-wrapper implementation. Feature, content-policy, billing, account, and cross-device parity remain untested, and no Android app-store release is established. Apple's 17+ content label and the terms' 18+ service requirement are different constructs and are not encoded as a platform-parity difference.

  • $12.99 — Pro monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $24.99 — Premium monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $49.99 — VIP monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 4 citations
Read account caveat

Official policies document email-based portable-data export, settings-based cancellation and deletion, and generally nonrefundable fees with described exceptions. Terms describe Stripe while conditional store-purchase language and the new iOS app leave the actual billing path unresolved. The current privacy and terms pages contain unresolved placeholder fields, and no end-to-end outcome was tested.

GPTGirlfriend6 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger UGC, variable boundariesContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + home-screen web app; Android: browser + direct APK + home-screen web appAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 4 citations
Read delivery caveat

Official pages document browser access, a PWA intended for iOS, Android, and desktop, and a direct Android package. The terms and privacy notice also refer generically to App Store and Google Play apps, but no matched native-store identity was established.

The official download guide documents browser-installed PWA delivery across desktop, iOS, and Android plus a direct Android package, and tells readers they can skip app stores. No installation was performed; native-store identity and feature, content-policy, billing, notification, offline, account-operation, and experience parity remain unresolved.

No current monthly amount meets the display threshold. Cancel: self service; delete: support assisted; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 2 citations
Read account caveat

Official policies document privacy and access, portability, or erasure rights through support, account/processor cancellation controls, and limited mistake, technical-issue, processor, or case-by-case refunds despite a generally nonrefundable position. Website and generic app-store billing language is present, but no current platform billing path is selected because native-store identity remains unresolved. The privacy notice says personal information is usually retained for six years after account closure. No operation or store identity was tested hands-on.

Kindroid10 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Hybrid, adult optionalContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-15 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: app-store installation (implementation unresolved); Android: app-store installation (implementation unresolved)Availability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 7 citations
Read delivery caveat

Current first-party help plus exact publisher-linked US Apple and Google listings establish browser access and app-store installation on iPhone and Android. The installed implementation type and broader parity remain unresolved.

Official help and exact store listings document iPhone and Android app-store installation, channel-specific billing, and stricter installed-app media-generation policy while web retains a separate content toggle. Installed implementation type remains unresolved; broader feature, policy, account, and behavior parity remains untested.

  • $13.99 — Standard monthly, core plan, web, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $15.99 — Standard monthly, core plan, android, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $15.99 — Standard monthly, core plan, ios, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $38.98 — Standard + Ultra monthly total, core plan, web, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $44.98 — Standard + Ultra monthly total, core plan, android, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $44.98 — Standard + Ultra monthly total, core plan, ios, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $98.97 — Standard + Ultra + MAX monthly total, core plan, web, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $113.97 — Standard + Ultra + MAX monthly total, core plan, android, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
  • $113.97 — Standard + Ultra + MAX monthly total, core plan, ios, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-15 · 3 citations
Read account caveat

Official policies document channel-specific billing and cancellation, discretionary refunds, a support-requested machine-readable data copy limited to once per 180 days, and self-service deletion that schedules the final Kindroid before removing journals and backstory. Retention exceptions remain, and no workflow was tested hands-on.

Kupid AI10 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Adult firstContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: editorial inference No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browserAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 3 citations
Read delivery caveat

The current product and purchase flow establish browser delivery. An install prompt and standalone web-app manifest are present, but OS-specific installation and native-store identities remain unverified.

Kupid publishes an Install App prompt, Apple web-app metadata, and a standalone web-app manifest. No public OS-specific guide or matched native-store listing was found; installation, notifications, offline use, billing, feature, policy, and account-operation parity were not tested.

No current monthly amount meets the display threshold. Cancel: support assisted; delete: support assisted; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 3 citations
Read account caveat

Official pages document direct web billing, email cancellation, a Controller-assisted Personal Data copy request, and Controller-assisted erasure or consent withdrawal. The policy also says data is usually retained for six years after account closure and allows legal exceptions. Delivered, accessed, or used digital purchases are described as nonrefundable. No workflow or outcome was tested.

MyLovely12 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger UGC, variable boundariesContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: editorial inference Publisher explicitly names gay.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browserAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 2 citations
Read delivery caveat

The homepage documents browser use without a download on phone or computer. A standalone web manifest shows PWA intent, but OS-specific installation and native-store identities remain unverified.

Browser delivery is explicit and a standalone web manifest shows install intent. No OS-specific install guide, successful PWA install, service-worker/offline behavior, push support, matched native-store identity, or platform parity result is established.

  • $12.99 — Premium monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
  • $19.99 — Premium Plus monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
Cancel: self service; delete: support assisted; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 4 citations
Read account caveat

Official pages document controller-assisted access, portability, and erasure requests; settings-based cancellation; direct card or crypto billing; and conditional refund guidance. The policy permits authorized input/output review and processor sharing and lists account-log retention up to 3–5 years after last activity and payment/tax retention of 7–10 years. Have I Been Pwned independently lists a verified, sensitive 2026-04-07 My Lovely AI breach affecting 106,271 accounts; it describes exposed prompts and generated-image links while its structured data classes list email addresses and social-media profiles. No current remediation, privacy control, or account-operation outcome was tested.

Nastia AI8 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Adult firstContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + home-screen web app; Android: browser + home-screen web appAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 1 citation
Read delivery caveat

Nastia documents browser access on computers and mobile devices plus an installable PWA on iOS and Android; no current native App Store or Google Play identity is established.

Official instructions document browser and PWA delivery. Native-store delivery and feature, content-policy, billing, age-rule, notification, offline, and account-operation parity remain unverified.

  • $15.99 — Unlimited monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: self service.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 5 citations
Read account caveat

Official pages document privacy terms, per-chat and per-file export rather than one-click full export, direct billing, self-service cancellation, generally nonrefundable purchases, and account deletion. The privacy notice permits some legal, fraud, and backup retention; no workflow or complete erasure outcome was tested.

Nomi16 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Hybrid, adult optionalContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed No orientation-specific audience support is established in the current record.State: needs verification · checked 2026-07-12 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + app-store installation (implementation unresolved); Android: app-store installation (implementation unresolved) + browserAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 5 citations
Read delivery caveat

The current product is available in a browser and exact Nomi.ai-linked Apple App Store and Google Play listings establish iOS and Android availability. The Android implementation type, installation, and feature, policy, billing, and behavior parity were not tested.

Exact official-linked Apple App Store and Google Play listings establish iOS and Android app-store availability, while Nomi also documents mobile-browser access and platform-specific billing. Neither listing resolves native-versus-wrapper implementation. Current official help describes content-setting differences between app, non-age-verified web, and paid age-verified web access. Nomi's service terms require users to be 18+ and Apple's listing is 18+; Google Play's Teen value is a store content rating, not permission for a minor to use the service. Installation and broader parity remain untested.

  • $15.99 — Standard monthly, core plan, ios, USmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: support assisted.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-12 · 6 citations
Read account caveat

Official pages document platform-specific billing/cancellation, a generally nonrefundable policy with discretionary exceptions, conditional legal rights to access or transfer personal information through support, and settings-based deletion with a six-digit email confirmation and completion within about 28 days. The privacy policy excludes communications/training archives and legal records from complete attributable deletion in some circumstances. No export, deletion, billing, cancellation, or refund outcome was tested.

OurDream7 cited support recordsOpen cited claim ledger Adult firstContent: editorial inference · adult roleplay: merchant claimed Publisher explicitly names gay, lesbian, bi/pan, trans/nonbinary, and custom.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-11 Web: browser; iPhone/iPad: browser + home-screen web app; Android: browser + home-screen web appAvailability: merchant claimed · delivery: merchant claimed · 1 citation
Read delivery caveat

Official help documents the OurDream website in Safari and Chrome with Add to Home Screen on iOS and Android, and says no standalone mobile app is available.

OurDream documents browser and home-screen delivery and says there is no standalone mobile app. Core feature, content-policy, billing, age-rule, notification, and account-operation parity remain untested and undocumented.

  • $19.99 — Premium monthly, core plan, web, Global USD listingmerchant claimed · checked 2026-07-11
Cancel: self service; delete: self service; export: unknown.State: merchant claimed · checked 2026-07-11 · 4 citations
Read account caveat

Exact official articles document direct subscription billing, self-service cancellation, refund-request guidance, and self-service deletion; privacy, export, and end-to-end outcomes remain unverified.

Monthly amounts are dated core-plan or bundle listings, not observed checkout totals. Optional add-on-only fees cannot enter this base-price column. Included usage, overages, taxes, other add-ons, regional pricing, and platform differences may remain unknown. Documented cancellation, deletion, and export paths are not proof that a workflow completed successfully.

Keep the edges visible

Male romance does not always mean an adult boyfriend product.

Anima

Current content record: Mixed boundary / unresolved; needs verification.

Why it is adjacent: Current sources do not establish adult roleplay. The current product-content boundary is unresolved.

Audience evidence: publisher explicitly names gay and lesbian, independently from the content boundary.

Oldest relevant check 2026-07-12

Anima AI Boyfriend / iBoy

Current content record: Mixed boundary / unresolved; needs verification.

Why it is adjacent: Current sources do not establish adult roleplay. The current product-content boundary is unresolved.

Oldest relevant check 2026-07-12

Idyll AI

Current content record: Mixed boundary / unresolved; needs verification.

Why it is adjacent: Current sources do not establish adult roleplay. The current product-content boundary is unresolved.

Audience evidence: publisher explicitly names gay, lesbian, bi/pan, trans/nonbinary, and custom, independently from the content boundary.

Oldest relevant check 2026-07-12

Replika

Current content record: Romance / SFW control; editorial inference.

Why it is adjacent: Current sources do not establish adult roleplay. The current product-content model is not an adult-scope classification.

Oldest relevant check 2026-07-12

Some products are excluded entirely: Companion Curator does not publish reviews, comparisons, tools, or merchant actions for services whose current product includes real-person nudification or high-risk real-person recreation without verifiable consent safeguards. We document that boundary instead of silently mixing those services into the eligible catalog.

A real evidence gap

Specific trans men representation is not established.

The current qualifying set contains 0 specifically documented trans men paths. Across the broader male-romance set, Candy AI, MyLovely, and OurDream carry only a broad, unspecified trans-companion record.

A broad trans label is not specific trans man evidence. Separately, a publisher naming trans or nonbinary users is an audience claim—not proof of a trans companion path, pronoun reliability, or representation parity. “Not established” is not the same as “not supported.”

Five-minute decision path

Use the evidence in the order you make the decision.

1. Describe the fit

Choose companion identity, audience evidence, relationship, explicitness, device, and features privately.

Use the companion finder

Public experience, handled separately

This hub does not turn anecdotes into a verdict.

Several launch profiles have curated community-research packets, while newer or less documented products do not. Those qualitative samples have different dates, source mixes, commercial contamination, and coverage ceilings.

Until one exact, balanced hub-level source set receives accountable approval, this page stays with first-party product, policy, app, price, device, and account documentation. Missing community synthesis is visible here; it is not silently replaced with marketing claims or a numeric score.

How source-checked facts, public reports, and first-hand testing stay separate

Common questions

What this evidence can—and cannot—answer.

Does a boyfriend option mean a product supports gay men?

No. It establishes male companion inventory only when supported by a current source. This guide requires separate first-party audience evidence before saying a publisher explicitly names gay users.

Which current products explicitly name gay users?

Anima, DearHim, Idyll AI, MyLovely, and OurDream. Anima and Idyll AI are boundary cases; DearHim, MyLovely, and OurDream meet the current adult-roleplay evidence gate. These are publisher claims, not tested inclusion conclusions.

Which option is explicitly positioned for women who date men?

DearHim's current publisher note says The current official homepage explicitly says the product is built for women and gay men who date men; quality and parity remain untested. This positioning is separate from orientation evidence and product-quality testing.

Which adult AI boyfriend is best?

This source-checked hub does not use comparable first-hand evidence to name a winner. The useful answer depends on audience fit, relationship goal, content boundary, device, cost, and exit controls. The cards, ledger, and tools show those factors without turning them into a synthetic score.

Do any specifically document trans men companions?

Not in the current qualifying set. Candy AI, MyLovely, and OurDream have only broad unspecified trans records, which cannot be converted into a specific trans man claim.

Which options have a documented app-store install?

The current projection records an operator-linked app-store installation for DearHim, Kindroid, and Nomi. That establishes a distribution path, not whether the installed package is native, hybrid, or a web wrapper. Browser, home-screen web app, direct APK, and unresolved delivery remain separate. Read each delivery caveat or use the device checker.

How much will an AI boyfriend actually cost?

Current displayed monthly publisher listings span $5.99 to $199.99; 2 qualifying products have no monthly amount that meets the display threshold. This cannot price unknown allowances, overages, taxes, add-ons, or an unobserved checkout. Use True Cost to model known inputs without pretending the result is an exact bill.

Can I cancel, export, or delete the account?

9 qualifying products currently document self-service cancellation: Candy AI, CrushOn.AI, DearHim, GPTGirlfriend, Kindroid, MyLovely, Nastia AI, Nomi, and OurDream. 7 document either a self-service or support-assisted export path: DearHim, GPTGirlfriend, Kindroid, Kupid AI, MyLovely, Nastia AI, and Nomi. 9 document either a self-service or support-assisted deletion path: CrushOn.AI, DearHim, GPTGirlfriend, Kindroid, Kupid AI, MyLovely, Nastia AI, Nomi, and OurDream. Exact scope matters: Nastia AI documents per-chat/per-file export rather than a one-click full export. A documented path is not proof that any workflow succeeds. Compare the notes in the ledger or use the account-control navigator.

Method and limits

How products enter this guide.

A qualifying row needs current or due-soon, usable claims for a male companion, romance, adult roleplay, and an adult-first, hybrid/adult-optional, or variable-UGC product-content model. Usable means verified, merchant claimed, or a visibly labeled editorial inference. SFW-only and romance/SFW classifications do not qualify even if another field changes. Stale, unsupported, unknown, contradictory, and retired records fail closed. Products are alphabetical; commissions never determine inclusion or order.

This is source-checked decision support, not a community consensus or protocol-tested review. No product destination or affiliate button is enabled here.